CEBU CITY, Philippines — Establishing mindful boundaries in friendships outside a relationship is key to maintaining trust, respect, and emotional well-being.
Recently, showbiz couple Andi Eigenmann and Philmar Alipayo sparked breakup rumors after exchanging cryptic messages online. Speculation grew when a close friend, allegedly Philmar’s “girl best friend” was linked to the controversy.
This led to speculations about a third party, with Swedish photographer Pernilla Sjoö being implicated due to her matching tattoo with Philmar. Pernilla responded by urging the public not to judge and to be kind.
This situation highlights several points about maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships:
Be transparent
Honesty is the foundation of any strong relationship. Keeping your partner in the loop about your friendships avoids unnecessary drama. A simple heads-up about who you’re spending time with or what’s going on can go a long way in building trust.
Set limits
Every relationship is different, so it’s important to define what’s acceptable and what isn’t. Being mindful of certain actions—like late-night one-on-one hangouts or overly personal conversations—helps prevent misunderstandings and unnecessary conflict.
READ: Philmar on IG feud with Andi: ‘You all can call me a cheater and ugly now’
Prioritize your relationship
Friendships are valuable, but your relationship should be your top priority. If a situation makes your partner uncomfortable, it’s worth considering whether the friendship dynamic needs adjustment. A healthy relationship thrives when both partners feel secure and valued.
Respect your partner’s feelings
Boundaries aren’t just about rules; they’re about mutual understanding. If your partner expresses discomfort about a certain friendship or interaction, don’t dismiss it. Talk it out, listen with an open mind, and find a compromise that works for both of you.
Avoid confusing situations
If an action could be misinterpreted—like getting matching tattoos with a friend or sharing overly intimate moments—it’s best to think twice. Even if your intentions are pure, perception matters. A little caution can prevent unnecessary hurt feelings and trust issues.
At the end of the day, strong relationships thrive on trust, respect, and understanding. Boundaries don’t limit friendships—they make them healthier! /clorenciana