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‘Kisapmata’: Tale of domestic violence, incest and struggle to freedom

By: ATTY. DENNIS GORECHO - Columnist/CDN Digital | March 14,2025 - 06:34 AM

“𝐓𝐚𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭. 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐓𝐚𝐭𝐚𝐲. 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐧𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 e𝐥𝐬𝐞.”

A father’s seemingly innocent loving lines from Tanghalan Pilipino’s (TP) stage adaptation of the1981 drama film “Kisapmata” that, however, hide  issues of domestic violence, incest and the struggle to freedom.

I first saw the suspense thriller film “Kisapmata” in the late 1980s during  my college days at the University of the Philippines in Diliman.

Almost forty years later, I watched its TP’s theatrical version last weekend which coincided with the celebration of International Women’s Day.

“Kisapmata” is a 1981 drama film directed by Mike de Leon, written by De Leon, Clodualdo del Mundo Jr., and  Raquel Villavicencio based on 1968 reportage “The House on Zapote Street” by National Artist for Literature Nick Joaquin.“Kisapmata” follows Mila’s struggle to break free from smothering grasp of his father, retired police officer Sgt. Dadong Carandang, by marrying her co-worker Noel.

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It is the story of a tyrannical father who feels an incestuous love for his daughter and hatred for his son-in-law while terrorizing his meek wife who looks on with horror at the events unfolding at their household.

Everything gets chaotic after the wedding, where Dadong still intends the couple to live at their home and the couple is put into situations that separates them.

What follows is a disturbing picture of a father’s deranged attempt to keep the couple away from each other and ultimately, to keep Mila for himself.

It showcases a “perfect” Filipino family where tension and drama of love and fear collide within the confines of a seemingly idyllic household.

Joaquin’s original story was published in 1961 Philippines Free Press that  chronicles how Ilocano police detective Pablo Cabading  committed familicide by shooting his own wife, daughter, and son-in-law, before blowing his brains out. He was married to the soft-spoken Anunciacion. They had a daughter, an only child named Lydia Cabading-Quitangon. At the time of the crime, she was a medical intern married to  Dr. Leonardo Quitangon.

In the film, Mila was played by Charo Santos, Dadong by Vic Silayan, Noel by Jay Ilagan and Dely by Charito Solis.

In the stage adaptation, the cast include Jonathan Tadioan as Dadong, Lhorvie Nuevo-Tadioan as Dely, Toni Go-Yadao as Mila, and Marco Viaña as Noel. Understudies for the roles include Arjay Babon (Dadong), Sofia Sacaguing (Dely), Sarah Monay (Mila), and Mark Lorenz (Noel).

“Kisapmata” was first shown during the 1981 Metro Manila Film Festival and reaped a total of 10 awards, including Best Actor, Best Actress, Best Picture, and Best Director.

“Kisapmata” shows how men are dominant over women in the old days. From the typical image of a domestic space as a symbol of security, the home becomes a representation of threat.

The play featured videos of Martial Law under the former dictator Ferdinand Marcos Sr. as  an unnerving microcosm of the Filipino society’s power struggle.

With acts of violence and wrongdoings done behind closed doors in the Carandang residence,  “Kisapmata” brings to life the shady criminal acts of the Marcos regime through Dadong’s character as a downright representation of a dictator who uses violence and fear to keep everyone in order, and murder, when they dare to stand up against him.

More than a film about the taboo of incest, De Leon narrated in his 2022 memoir “Last Look Back” how Kisapmata is an “allegory” or a symbolic story of Filipino life under fascism.

He said:“‘Kisapmata’ explores the concept of strongman rule as exemplified by the character of Dadong, ang Tatang, the psychotic padre de familia, rendered monstrous by the unforgettable performance of Vic Silayan. The father has incestuous relations with his daughter—the ultimate corruption. 

That the film was interpreted as an allegory of the regime of Ferdinand Marcos was no coincidence, though the crime happened in 1961. Nevertheless, many elements in this allegory were present in the original story. The policeman was an Ilocano, and so was Marcos. He ruled with an iron fist and subjected his family to unmitigated terror, just as Marcos did to the country.”

“Kisapmata” (1981) as well as “Batch ’81” (1982), and “Sister Stella L”  (1984), which De Leon directed and co-wrote, captured life under Martial Law through their allegorical insinuations.

Martial Law was formally lifted on January 17, 1981 through  Proclamation No. 2045.

Directed by Guelan Varela-Luarca, “Kisapmata”   will be staged from March 7 to 30, 2025, at the Tanghalang Ignacio Jimenez at the Cultural Center of the Philippines Complex in Pasay City.

In the words of TP artistic director Nanding Josef, the 38th season theme “Revolt” is a reminder that one can “do a revolution or social change formation, because you love somebody, your family, the community, you love your country or you love God.”

“You have to be more selfless, you have to be more concerned with other people through pakikipagkapwa (empathy) especially those who have been victims of oppression or poverty.” Josef said.

(Peyups is the moniker of University of the Philippines. Atty. Dennis R. Gorecho heads the seafarers’ division of the Sapalo Velez Bundang Bulilan law offices. For comments, e-mail [email protected], or call 0908-8665786.)

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