Paul Edward Rama checks his father’s bier in the Rama ancestral home, while his mother, Geraldine, (seated) looks on. (CDN PHOTO/JUNJIE MENDOZA)
Basakanons lost their barangay captain when George Rama died last Monday.
His only son, 15-year-old Paul Edward, laments losing a loving father.
“The best lesson I learned from my father was to cherish your family first. That’s what he would always tell me: that I shouldn’t leave my mom alone especially when he’s not around,” Paul told reporters at the vigil wake.
The wake is being held in the Rama ancestral house built in the 1940s, a spacious, wooden residence of the late Sen. Vicente Rama and Cebu Gov. Osmundo Rama in barangay Basak San Nicolas.
Cebu City Mayor Michael Rama lives next door, with other Rama relatives as neighbors.
The house has sentimental value for the clan as the gathering place of Rama menfolk on Sunday mornings where they would discuss politics and current events over breakfast.
George’s sense of humor and colorful language always took center stage during Rama clan reunions, said the mayor.
“Ang wit ni George, walay makapuli. Ang courage sa pagstorya, way makapuli. (No one could match his wit or courageous speech.) George was one of a kind, too difficult to replace.”
Mayor Rama said their clan lost a “defender and protector”, while he lost a loyal ally.
“He always respected my decision. I have lost a friend, a confidant, a protector and a defender. I learned so much from him.”
Among the first flower stands to arrive yesterday expressing condolences was that of Rep. Gloria Macapagal Arroyo with husband Miguel.
Lying in state, George was dressed in his favorite orange floral polo shirt. His burial at the Cebu Memorial Park is set next Monday.
The 66-year-old village chief succumbed to bronchopneumonia past 2 p.m. on Monday after being confined in Chong Hua Hospital since Jan. 15.
A popular leader, he was barangay captain since 2007 and served as Cebu city councilor 2001 to 2004, with another stint as barangay captain before then.
With George’s death, the number one councilman of the barangay, Norman Navarro will take his place as barangay captain. Navarro is also one of the choreographers of the successful Lumad Basakanon dance troupe, which Rama founded in 1990 by tapping out-of-school youths.
Despite his busy schedule, George would make it a point to have breakfast and dinner at home with his wife, Geraldine and son, said Paul.
Paul recalled their last conversation on Tuesday last week in the hospital where he dropped by on his way to school. He said his father told him to take care of himself. After that, the official was too weak to speak.
Paul said he would miss his father’s deep, gravelly voice.
“He had a big voice. Although we sometimes got intimidated by him, he was a soft-hearted person. He would get angry for the right reasons. When he got mad, you would learn a lesson,” Paul told reporters.
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